AFTER A WHILE

After a while you learn

The subtle difference between

Holding a hand and chaining a soul

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning

And company doesn't always mean security.

And you begin to learn

That kisses aren't contracts

And presents aren't promises

And you begin to accept your defeats

With your head up and your eyes ahead

With the grace of a woman

Not the grief of a child.

And you learn

To build all your roads on today

Because tomorrow's ground is

Too uncertain for plans

And future have a way

Of falling down in mid flight.

After a while you learn

That even sunshine burns if you get too much

So you plant your own garden

And decorate your own soul

Instead of waiting

For someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn

That you really can endure

That you are really strong

And you really do have worth

And you learn and you learn

With every goodbye you learn.

Before You Die

Name ten things you want to do before you die and then go do them. Name ten places you really want to be before you die and then go to them. Name ten books you want to read before you die and then go read them. Name ten songs you want to hear before you die, get all your friends together and scream them.

Because right now all you have is time time time, but someday that time will run out. That's the only thing you can be absolutely certain about.

Think of all things that are wrong with your life and then fix them. Think of all things that you love about your life, be thankful you're blessed with them. Think of all the things you hold back and realize that you don't need them. Think of all the mistakes you've made in your life, make sure that you never repeat them.

Name ten thousand reasons why you never want to die, go and tell someone who might have forgotten. Try to list the endless reasons why it's good to be alive, and then just smile for awhile about them.

Our New Babies! BILBO & MIKU! (ʃƪ ˘ ³˘)

So, I finally got two cute little babies here! We bought them yesterday. They are campbell dwarf hamster. I named them Bilbo after Bilbo Baggins because it's the most epic name ever. The one named Miku after Hatsune Miku. The name is given by Niki, my boyfriend's sister.
So, Bilbo is very active and naughty. He makes so much noise. While Miku is more passive and lazy. She just eats and sleeps all day long.

You can see their cute videos here

24 MORE DAYS! WHAT SHOULD I GET HIM FOR VALENTINE???

Hi my sweetie girls! | 24 days to Valentine!!! What have you gotten for your boy? Or are you going to plan a candlelight dinner? Or are you the one who is confused whether buying him gift or surprising him by cooking dinner for you two? Well, I got some of gifts ideas for you girls if you're blank in buying him gifts:

1. Perfume/cologne. Guys also love that thing, sweetie! And of course, you love the guy with sweet smell, don't you? Mom used to buy dad so many kind of perfume but this is my favorite. Even it smells amazing on girls!
   Recommended item: ARMANI GIO COLOGNE
2. Movie tickets! He's gonna love it! Especially when it comes for the guys who dedicate their life to movies (example: my boy) ;) 
3. Watch for your Mr. Late. The great one is Timex. Good quality comes after higher price, dear | 
4. Clothes! If you have that kind of guy who is a little bit preppy and is constantly worried about his appearance, why not invest in an awesome looking, yet still preppy clothes? For example, you can buy him Argyle Sweater. Just watch the sizes and material and make sure you get a color that he will like!
5. Chocolate, cookies, cupcakes! D.I.Y one, of course. He will surely fall in love more deeper to you when those chocolates melt in his mouth! |
   Here's some links for you guys:
   - Chocolate Fudge in Origami Box
   - Bourbon Petite Bear Chocolate House
   - Red Velvet Cupcakes
   - Chocolate Candy Photo Frame
6. Love letter. Don't worry about the cheesy lines. You write him, not read it out loud in front of him, don't you? So, write those romantic yet sweet lines and make him fall for your knees when he meets you! ;)

I hope it will help you darlings. Good luck for your V-day! ;) Adieu! |

"Look at them! They're still together?"

I'm back and I'm going to talk about R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-P today...

People tend to ask, "They're still together?" when a couple has been in a relationship for 3 months or more. It's like something amazing happened when it comes for couple who is still together in 3 months. 3 months are such a very short period, guys! I've been asked by some of my friends:

1. You guys are still together? How come?
2. Are you guys never be in fight?
3. How could you guys last this long?

And I will just answered, "This is just a beginning. 3 months are too short for us to know each other! And alright, we've been in fight, dramatic and tragic story. But we survived!"
Teens these days are difficult to survive those dramas in their relationship. They tend to give up, stop fighting for the one they love, and move on. Forgetting that they used to love each other and don't want to let each other go. So I'm here for giving you some advice when you both are fighting (hope it'll work for you guys):

• Communication. When you find yourself uncomfortable in some point of your relationship, go talk to them. Tell them what you feel. I found out that it's difficult for some couples, but if you want to survive the dramas, you have to THROW OUT what inside you!
• Forget the past. You cannot bring up the past in the fight. I mean if they did something and you've forgiven them, it just seems not right to spoil those mistakes out from your mouth again. It will hurt them. 
• Say sorry and mean it. Don't say "I'm sorry" easily and do the same thing tomorrow morning. Say it when you really feel you've hurt them and want to change.
• Don't yell. Don't hit. If you're the guy and you hit your girl, kiss my ass. Girl, you don't deserve a man like him. Just leave him. And girls, please don't yell. Your boyfriend isn't deaf.
• When it comes to the girls who cry when both of you're fighting, the guys only need to stay there and keep silent until the girls stop crying. After that, you can talk to her about your problem.

I only get a few advice for you. Sorry >.< Actually me and Andrian seldom be in a fight, but when we fight, it will be him who got angry, and me who will cry like baby LOL~ But we don't need a long time to get together. It only lasts 3 hours, if I'm not wrong. Relationship without fights is just sooooo boring, dear. I mean, if we fight, we'll get to know the sides of them. The sides that slowly will be uncovered in your relationship...

100 DAYS WITH DEAR HUBBY ♥

What are those beautiful roses above??? It's our 100th day today! ^.^ He gave me these roses and the story was very funny to tell guys! He texted me, but I didn't read it. I was busy playing my NDS. Even he texted my sister & dad! But then no one answered. He waited for so long time for me to show up. Feel so pity about him to wait for me :( Nevermind. He still loves me anyway XD That's the main thing LOL. I love you babe! Thanks for these 100 stupidawkwardfunny days! I LOVE YOU!!!!! xoxo *showering kisses and hugs*

Long Distance Relationship, I believe it works.

I struggled a lot in putting myself to believe that this kind of relationship will work on us. Yes, I do believe it works. No matter how far you may be from each other, it's worth it. If both of you are deeply in love, distance is not your problem. As long as you both trust and love each other, your relationship will be strong. I know you'll always crave to see each other but just know that one day it may come true. Put in so much effort, stay strong, and hope. LDR, it's still a relationship though.