Survey: Random Questions

1. Have you ever been friends with benefits with someone? - No.
2. Do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend right now? - Sort of. I like being single though.
3. Have you ever been on a bad first date? - Nope.
4. Do you believe that love exists? - Yes.
5. Do you think text s_e_x (where you text someone dirty things) is good? - No. It's retarded.
6. Have you ever had text s_e_x? - Nope.
7. Have you ever gone out with one of your guy/girl friends? - Yes.
8. Is it okay to kiss on the first date? - No, because you don't know the person well enough yet.
9. Are you and your crush friends? - Sort of.
10. If you've ever played spin the bottle or seven minutes in heaven, have you ever had to kiss a nerd? - Nope.
11. How far should you go on the first date? - Just holding hands.
12. Have you ever had a crush on the same person as your friend? - Yes.
13. Do internet relationships work out? - It depends. You really have to work at it.
14. What about long distance relationships? - You would have to really work at it and you would have to see each other a lot but maybe it could work.
15. Is cheating okay if the relationship hasn't been that long? - Not at all.
16. Have you ever cheated on someone before? - Nope
17. If your two best friends (your closest guy friend and your closest girl friend) starting going out, would you feel awkward around them? - If they start making out in front of me, then yes, I would feel awkward. But other than that, no.
18. Are you obsessed with romance? - Yeah, I would say so.
19. What gifts would you like to receive on Valentine's Day? - Jewelry, stuffed animal, card, a box of heart shaped chocolates, flowers.
20. Finally, do you think that if you kissed your closest guy/girl friend, you would fall in love with them? - It would just be awkward, and neither of us would ever bring it up again.

Long Distance Relationship, I believe it works.

I struggled a lot in putting myself to believe that this kind of relationship will work on us. Yes, I do believe it works. No matter how far you may be from each other, it's worth it. If both of you are deeply in love, distance is not your problem. As long as you both trust and love each other, your relationship will be strong. I know you'll always crave to see each other but just know that one day it may come true. Put in so much effort, stay strong, and hope. LDR, it's still a relationship though.

Long Distance Relationship [LDR]

Most of couples avoid talking about this thing because they think they'll spend their time together forever till the end of time (?)

Well the reason why I bring up the topic here is because my boyfriend and I, maybe, will be separated by time and land when we graduate. He wants to study abroad to Singapore and because my dad told me to stay here in Indonesia, the chance for us to separate is 90% (well the 10% will happen if he decides to study here). At the start, it really bothers me that I get depressed with it. Will I survive without him? But I think I shouldn't take it too serious because no one knows exactly what will happen next day, right?

Long distance relationship mostly ends up with unhappy ending because of trust issues and no communication between the couples. We will not know what happen there if our boyfriend doesn't contact us and say hi or stuffs and we'll begin to lose that 'trust' on him. When actually he's too busy with his college, we just think that he has another girl to impress. And then we will say those words, "I think we should talk seriously... I can't take it anymore. I think we should end this..." Eww. I r o n i c.

Well it won't end like that if you both keep in touch every time. You should remember this, "Don't contact her/him if you have time, but take some minutes of your time to contact her/him" She/he is not a choice but she/he is a priority. She/he has your heart and she/he needs you to tell her/him about your day. 

Here are some tips for you to get that happy-ending-story of your LDR:

1. You should talk to each other everyday. Get skype, YM, Facetime, stuffs like that. Talk to him/her. Tell him/her about your day in college, etc.
2. TRUST. You really need trust to keep your relationship go on. You won't sit like fool thinking what is he/she doing right there and who he/she is out with. 
3. Go for a special date on special occasions (ex: Christmas, New Year, Valentine, his/her birthday) At least you both meet once or twice a year.
4. You both should have plan. You won't have that LDR forever, will you? You both will meet at the end of the road and if it happens, you'll know what to do. If you know you can't live together, just END IT. It'll just make you two suffer. Or one of you should move to another's country. It is just about the end date of both of you.

Love is beautiful, my cuppycakes. But if you can't control yourself, it won't appear as beautiful as it is. You should understand it and know what you should do next to stay in that zone called LOVE| For you guys who are going to have LDR or in LDR, I wish all the best for you. Remember, just keep in touch and TRUST EACH OTHER.